I'm thinking about how most of my life's actions have had a catalyst in emotional pain.  I've made decisions because my feelings were so hurt that I saw my only recourse as running away. 

I had surgery last Monday and I'm feeling especially fragile.  My kids have been great; they sent flowers, have run errands and checked in every day.  I've also received emails and texts from a few good friends.  Beyond that....nothing.  Maybe it's the digital age, maybe it's our age of indifference.  Maybe I am WAY too sensitive.

How do you stop keeping score?